late nite thoughts from a moment's whisper

Choices in life are what define us as people right?

The decisions and choices you've made up to this point have made you what you are.

I think about the moments that really changed my life and put me to the person I am today.

- first kiss
- first heartache
- moving away from home and truly becoming a adult
- the first album I really feel in love with (alanis morissette, Ironic.... btw)
- the first time i really regretted something
- the first time i lost someone

These moments and so many more.... but what if they were different, what if you could go back and change the outcome. Would you still end up basically the same?

Would your values, loves, hates, wants and needs change? Would you lead a different life.. different job, friends and experiences.

Sometimes it is so easy to 'wish back' a choice or decision no matter how good or bad the outcome will be to you and yet that very change could mean a different you.

I continue to ponder this as I look at the choices i've made and the path its lead me on.. not necessarily bad or good just the road I've chosen to take.

It's taken me 24 years to question some keys things in my life- and although I don't expect to have all the answers soon... I value the questions and opportunities it raises.

We are who we are its true.

xo.
vb.